Thursday, August 23, 2012

Changing the face.....

So, now that we've been home for 4 years and almost 2 years with Rylee and we have NO intentions (RIGHT NOW) of adding to our family, the dynamic of this blog might change.  I have tried to keep up with the blog as to what the kids are up to, and what we've been up to as a family-but sometimes refrain from just doing a "casual blog post". 

I will still continue to update this blog and use this as a "baby-book" for the kiddos, along with our Shutterfly books as well. (That have still yet to be printed).  But I also love to just "air it out" sometimes, give my thoughts on life, and maybe throw out my 2 cents every now and again. 

So be on the lookout for a few more updates.

And get excited.

There is a lot more fun to be had on Ryan and Meggs Journey.....which after I named this blog, i thought why wasn't it named "MegRyansjourney"? You would think, the control freak that I am I would have demanded my name come first. Tehehehe.....

Until then I leave you with a few of my favorite pics I have uploaded this week......

The fun one : )
My childhood bestie got married in June.....maybe THE most beautiful day to have been a part of! Love them
Annnnnd, my handsome husband made for a great date!
My aunt is the proud owner of a sweet vintage car, I wish I could tell you what it was to make it that much sweeter-but I can't. I'm no good with that stuff.  However, we hopped a ride with her around the country section.
Both hands on the wheel Aunt Mindo.......
And, this might have been the BEST trip around a country section.ever
So silly, and so ready to celebrate my sister's 40th birthday (Part 1)
To be continued........

Sunday, August 19, 2012

Real.Love


We celebrated Rylee's Gotcha Day a day early (well, after all in Ethiopia it was time to celebrate, so we did it early here) BECAUSE......Zaela was in town! Most of you know that is how we met Lisa and Zaela, we lived our first weeks with our kiddos together in Ethiopia, with our babies-Rylee and Zaela, as first time parents! What a blessing that they were able to come to Michigan to stay with us for 4 days! They met lil' Miss Ezzie for the first time as well, and she did wonderful with them! Zaela will be blessed by a new baby sister in 2012-2013 from Ethiopia as well, so this was some good "training" for her! Thank you McCoy's for coming and vacationing with us! 
Rylee and Zaela LOVE eachother. We have decided that it's in the Ethiopian culture to do arranged marriages, so we're going to stick with that.  Rylee and Zaela will one day marry-like maybe in 2037 or something!  Rylee did super with the 2 lil' diva's that were running the show all week, no joke.  It was hilarious, they had their crowns on, and they wore them well : ) 

I am not really kidding when I say this is how they are the majority of the time. It's not really that far of a stretch.  He hams it up for her, she thinks he is absolutly hilarious he loves that she laughs at him, so it's a win win.  She's starting to talk talk talk talk talk. AND talk.  It's such a blessing to see how well these two have molded together the last year and a half.  She loves smoochies, chap-it (chapstick), wotion (lotion), mommy's makeup, HUGS (ah hug mama) and says the same thing as Rylee used to (Hold you mama) when she wants me to pick her up.  My heart melts, because she can be such a lil' diva who is easily hurt, she is our sensitive lil' girl and if something sets her off, she will let you know all about it.  So it's pics like these, and the hug requests, and smoochies and snuggle time that make me really thank the good lord-more so than ever.  It's not ALWAYS peachy here, it's just not-I just choose to carefully select my pics and stories to blog.  I blog about the" wonderful" super-market trips from back in the day (sometims those types of trips STILL happen), and I also blog about what i think my children will enjoy looking back on when they are older, because after all this is for them, and for us.
He's only been asking to play sports since the day we brought him home, I swear.  Ok-maybe from the day he could speak sentences to us.  BUUUUT finally, since we have moved-it's easier to find things for kids to do (without having to make the 25 minute trek) so this sumer it was SOCCER CAMP.  He loved it. The first day his feet couldnt stop moving, and the grin was slow to move from his face!  They talked of long plane rides before class one day, and he said "well, I'm from Ethiopia and my plane ride was like 460 hours"....close buddy. :)  He's excited to be able to play for real soccer next year, until then we'll keep his feet moving with other things this year!

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Not done yet.

What do you do when you feel like what you're doing is not "enough"?
This feeling weighs on my hear almost daily.  I miss Ethiopia every.minute.of.every.day.
I know with patience and prayer I will go back someday. Will it be next year? I sure hope it's in the cards for us, if not both of us, me.  I am not saying that because I am selfish.  I am saying that because my husband will be the first to tell you how passionate I am for the country and the people of Ethiopia.  And I am saying that because he would be the first one to pick me to go first if we can't both go.  After all, he went on one solo trip : ) ok, that's not the same thing but it was worth a shot.
If I cant get back to Ethiopia for a year, it is my goal to stay connected monthly via meetings, adoptive mama groups, conferences, etc until then!  People, I'm telling you: God put me where i am for a reason.  All of those nights sobbing after each loss of my babies he was telling me to just hang tight.  It's the craziest feeling n the world to now know WHAT the plan was, and I have to believe he's not done working in the area as far as our family in concerned.  I don't know if that means another adoption, another child, mission trips, etc I just know that I have a lot more work to do and many lives to be changed and touched.  My heart is full, and everyday I still pinch myself that this is the path he has chosen for us.  I just wish more people would jump on board and take the leap.....they have no idea what they're missing out on!